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She Came, She Saw, She Kinda, Almost, Conquered

March 30, 2018





What up fam! Hope your week has been lit! Oh, who am I kidding……. I’m 35. All of that just sounds weird LOL. So, how are you? What’s new? Nothing to crazy over here. I’m totally dragging because I started my week off all wrong. I didn’t go to bed until almost 10:00pm Sunday night. I know, I know, I’m such a rebel. I stayed up an extra 45 minutes past my bed time. WWWWHHHHHOOOOOAAAAA! Can you even handle me right now? And I waited until Monday morning to pack my food for the day..UGH. I mean, it’s already time consuming but then to be under time constraints and trying to do that…oh..no. Oh well, what are you gonna do. 
This past weekend was a pretty eye opening and a fun couple of days. Saturday morning, I hit the gym bright and early because I had an interview an hour across town for a personal training internship.  No, I’m not leaving my full-time job, this would be part time and would help me gain more experience and learn the business.  On my way to the interview I was going over questions that may be asked and how I might answer them. Yes, I did this out loud to myself. No shame in my game. Being that I do not have tint on my truck, I’m sure the neighboring vehicles were concerned. So, one of the questions I anticipated was, “What was the reason for your delay in pursuing a career as a personal trainer?”  As I answered this to myself I had this weird moment of clarity. It was never really that I didn’t want to be a personal trainer, or I wanted to pursue a career in insurance, it was mostly that I didn’t feel I looked the part. Even at my thinnest, not even eating 1,000 calories a day, I felt fat. I felt like I didn’t look fit enough to be a personal trainer. I often thought “Who would take fitness advice from me when I don’t even look fit?” Man, that made me feel so sad for my former self. I wasted so much time being so caught up in feeling less than. But, having those conversations with myself on the way really helped me open up and present my true self during my interview, so it was a win. Did I get the internship? Not sure yet, they had others to interview and said they would contact me. So, that could go either way. We’ll see. 
After that I went home and put on some workout clothes. The hubs and I were going to Vertical Ventures, an indoor rock climbing gym! I had been there years ago with my nephew, but my husband had never been and wanted to try it. When we got there, they ran us through a brief class on how to use the equipment and climb safely. Let me tell you, if that is not a relationship building experience I don’t know what is! You have to fall from near the top of the wall which is like 100 ft high….ok maybe not that high, but it was really high, and your partner at the bottom has to stop your fall and gently lower you to the ground. Scary! But, we both passed! They then gave us free rein on the gym. We climbed a couple sections. My husband is just a beast. He was like freakin’ spider-man. He has great grip strength and upper body strength, so this was like child’s play for him.

Me, I did pretty good. I definitely have a lot more grip and upper body strength since the last time I went. Plus, having my husband there, I wasn’t scared to fall. Then we gave the treadwall a try. It’s like a treadmill but upright with rocks to climb. That took a second to get used to, but it ended up being my favorite part! I can’t wait to get back in there and do it again!

OH! and I almost did a pull up! If you have read any of my earlier blog posts I was on a kick for awhile to do one pull up…just one! Well, for some reason my arms don’t bend, and I got tired of not progressing, so I gave up on that dream. Yes! I know! I GAVE UP! UGHHHHHHH so depressing! Well, they had these hanging cones, so you can work on your grip. I hung on them and was playing around and tried to pull myself up. Well, my elbows bent! I went about ¼ of the way. Hey, for me that’s progress. Then I had my husband hold my feet and I got 2 full pull ups! WHAT WHAT! So stoked! Now all I want to do Is practice pull ups. 
After Vertical Ventures……P.S. Your first visit, they give you two weeks free to use the climbing gym. Ok, so, after that we had planned on going to the beach. Well, when we got down to the beach it was all of sudden like the artic north, so we just walked up and down the beach. It was nice and peaceful. The beach we went to allows dogs, so it was fun to see all the dogs running around and having a great time. I certainly needed and welcomed the fresh air, even though it was chilly. All in all it was nice afternoon. I wanted to kick myself later for it though because when I got home it was like full on stress mode trying to get everything cooked/baked for the next days festivities, but I survived. 
So, the next day I celebrated my birthday with the amazing women in my life. My Mom, sisters, nieces and I went to Painting with a Twist. We brought brunchy foods and had mimosas while we painted the most adorable flower pots with daisies. We all had a great time, even my mom! And she did great by the way. So glad we could all get together. Unfortunately, I did not take pictures of any of the food!!!!! But I did get these cute pictures.


We did pretty good huh?!
After the painting, we went back to my mom’s for cake. My cake turned out ok. It looked NOTHING like the picture. In my freaked-out moment the night before I fought with that cake and the cake won. It tasted good though. I was slightly disappointed because I thought I had covered all of the bases. The food I prepared was grain free, low/no sugar, vegetarian and seed free. But that cake……I didn’t even think about it. The frosting had strawberry preserve in it……my one sister can’t eat seeds. Whomp whomp! FAIL! ::sigh:: I tried. But, at least one of the snicker doodle muffins I made was left so she had that in lieu of cake and those muffins are delish….the bomb…amaze balls! Shout out to Against All Grains for that recipe. It’s a winner, winner chicken dinner if you couldn’t tell.
It was a good weekend. 
So that leaves us where this whole post started. Sunday night I was up until 10:00pm. Monday morning I was running around like a mad person and then Monday night. Oh Monday night. Monday is my Yoga night. One hour and 20 minutes to focus on nothing but breathing, my body and just being in the moment. Well that was ruined by a shit ton of traffic. I had to miss my yoga class!!!!!! Errrgggg Traffic. Darn you people who can’t drive. So I signed up to take a class tonight. It will be a nice way to kick off this Easter weekend. Do you have any Easter plans? Do you even celebrate Easter? Easter day is going to be full of craziness going from one house to the next but I’m looking forward to it. And of course I’ll be cooking and baking. Don’t worry, I won’t back myself into a corner this weekend. I’ve already made sure I’ll have plenty of time to make everything. It should be smooth sailing. I’ll take pictures of the food I make this time so I can share the links to the recipes with you. 
All right! I think you read enough from me today. Have a great weekend peoples!
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B-SMART: Strategies to eat healthy and save money

March 23, 2018


 
Food intolerances and dietary preferences are for the birds! I just needed to say that. Shout it out loud! UGH! Let me tell you, so I have been planning a little girls day this coming weekend to celebrate my birthday. So, this Sunday My Mom, myself, my sisters and their daughters……the 6 of us, are getting together in the morning to do Painting with a Twist, have some brunchy finger foods while we are there and then go back to my Mom’s place for birthday cake. Well, I’m totally grain free, my one sister is gluten free and then my other sister and her daughter are vegetarians! Plus, neither of my sisters like cooked fruit. And, for my mom, we have been trying limit her foods that have excess sugar and processed carbohydrates. Needless to say, coming up with a menu has been a chore, simply for the fact there is so much to consider when choosing what to make. Making a couple things turns into making an entire spread because you want everyone to enjoy the food and be happy. I put it on myself really. I know they certainly don’t expect me to cater to each one of them, but I will. Food makes people happy and it makes me happy when my food makes people happy. Ok?! My menu so far, may change in the next five minutes, is an veggie loaded egg breakfast casserole, Paleo Orange Cranberry and Pecan muffins (my mom loves orange and cranberry,) and I will also be making Paleo snickerdoodle muffins. I’m hoping I included everyone. All of the above foods are vegetarian, grain and gluten free and one of the muffins does not have cooked fruit. Oh shoot……my oldest sister can’t eat anything with seeds….I’ll have to double check the veggies in the casserole. ::Sigh:: My sister is doing a mimosa station…yum! And my oldest sister is bringing fruit. I was going to make fruit skewers, but you know what, I’m just glad she is taking that off my hands, she can bring the fruit in a bucket for all I care. Oh, and coffee….I'm bringing coffee. Sheesh…..I think I went a little overboard. Now that I’m typing it out it sounds like a lot. Oh well, I over cook/bake for every occasion. Better too much than too little!

It should be fun though. My mom has never done Painting with a Twist. I had a bowling birthday party last year and she had so much fun doing that I thought I would do something this year she might enjoy.

Geez…..then next weekend is Easter…what the heck am I going to make for that?! I can’t think about that right now.

So, this week I wanted to offer some insight into how you can eat healthy and not break the bank. I thought it would be helpful and I have had to find ways to navigate the grocery waters myself so I wanted to share! I had been eating a pretty healthy diet through out my late teens and twenties but once I started having reactions to grains I was pretty much thrust in to health food overload. So, trust and believe, I know how overwhelming it can be. I mean, they make it so easy and inexpensive to eat crap food. When you decide or have to start eating a more whole food diet you feel awestruck at the cost an effort it takes. So, I wanted to provide some ways you can B-SMART and create shopping strategies to help you eat healthy and save money! 

BIG BOX STORES! We all know them; some people hate them. Me, I LOVE them! You’ve got your SAMS Club, COSTCO, BJ’s. Options people, you’ve got options. These big box stores offer a wide variety of food options and ways to save. The truth of the matter is buying in bulk truly does save you some cash. If there are foods you eat regularly or feel like you are constantly running to the store for, I highly recommend checking one of these stores out. I go there……let me be honest, my husband does most of the grocery shopping at SAMS Club or COSTCO ‘cuz he’s the best 😊 Soooooo he goes there to buy our meat, bottled water, apples, eggs and some veggies. I also have him pick up my almond milk and coconut oil there. And yes, they sell organic, gluten free, non-GMO…all the things! It’s great! And you can pick up your household items, some wine and knives you never knew you needed all in one trip. Score!

Shopping local, depending on your area, may be easier for some than others but look around you. Is there a farmer’s market you pass on the way to work every day? Does your community have art festivals, craft fairs etc. on the weekends where local farmers sell their crops? If so, make an effort to stop by and purchase your veggies there. You will be supporting your local economy and their produce is usually way cheaper than the store. Plus, it’s fresher and tends to last a little longer than the store-bought produce.  

Meal prep/Meal plan- I have said this one before and I am repeating myself because I truly find it to be one of the most time and money saving practices I have incorporated. Take a few moments one day a week and decide what you want to have for your meals that week. It can seem like a daunting task but after the first 2-3 times you’ll start to see the benefits, PROMISE! No more back and forth about what you’re going to have for dinner, no more giving in and going out to eat because you don’t feel like cooking or have nothing in the house to eat. No more wrecking your diet eating fast food on your lunch break at work because you’ll have fresh homemade food at your fingertips. The easiest way is to pull up a blank calendar worksheet in Microsoft word, put your meals in for each day, make a grocery list and off to the store you go! What ever you can make in advance and will keep, do so in the same day. My husband and I make almost all of our food on Sunday. Typically, the only meal we freshly prepare is our dinner each night. The nice thing, is if one of us is getting home late (typically me) we have food ready to go in the fridge. We can just pop it in the microwave and we have dinner in a few minutes as opposed to 30-60 minutes or more. I pack my meals with the prepared food each evening to take with me to work the next day and it keeps me from eating food that is brought into work or going out to eat on my lunch break. I can use my lunch break to go for a walk now and get outside in the fresh air. A much-needed mental break.

Another good rule of thumb when trying not to blow your entire life savings on healthier options is to Avoid catch phrases. By this I mean, try to avoid foods labelled, Keto, Paleo, Gluten free, when you can. Often times, you can find the same item with the same ingredients with out all of the hype for cheaper. When you gravitate toward the hype words sometimes you end up paying more for the flair. You’ll see this on some canned foods, packaged items such as chips or trail mix, you’ll even see it on frozen veggies from time to time. Which brings me to, Read your labels. Even on brands you think you know, read the label. It can help you avoid unwanted additives, ingredients and the catch phrase trap. Compare the labels of the store brand with the fancy, bright labelled brand. The store brand may be undercover gluten free, organic, non-GMO etc by having the small stamp near the nutrition facts. You’ll also want to read the tags. Each item in the store has a price tag on the shelf so you know the price but keep your eyes open for 2/$5.00, Buy One Get Ones etc. I also suggest looking in your local grocery stores circular which highlights the sales happening though out the store. This can help you save a few bucks on fresh fruits and veggies, fresh cut meats and pantry staples.

And last but not least, Try online! Online shopping makes eating more nutrient dense, natural foods more convenient and less expensive. You can read labels and shop bargains right from your computer or smart phone.  Great companies like Amazon and Thrive market offer an abundance of choices you can stock up on with deep discounts and free shipping. I purchase many of my pantry staples from these sites. Here are some of my favorite finds through Thrive market.


Hopefully you find these B-SMART strategies helpful in navigating your healthy lifestyle without breaking the bank! If you have any other tips or tricks you use to save a little dough on nutritious food items I would love to hear them! Please comment below so we can give them a try.

Have a great weekend everyone!

Peace out girl/boy scouts!

Fruit is Fabulous!

March 16, 2018





Good mornin’ boys and girls! It’s a mighty fine day today. LOL OMG! I have to share with you. So, when I was working Hurricane Irma the company I work for hired a bunch of temps to come in and help out with the exorbitant claim volume. There was this one guy that came in from Texas. Everyone called him cowboy. Not only did he dress like a cowboy, hat, boots and belt buckle, but he sounded just like Woody from Toy Story. Every morning as we all rolled in half asleep to greet another 12 hour day he would loudly say “Good mornin’ boys and girls! It’s a mighty fine day today.” It always put a smile on my face and I couldn’t help but secretly want him to follow that with “There’s a snake in my boots!” Good times. I don’t know what made me think of that. It’s the little things.

How was your week? Mine has been hectic as usual. The only thing that has kept me from surrendering to my bed is that I need to get my PTO back in the positive. I’m rockin’ that negative PTO life right now and it’s not fun. I don’t know, this time change has really affected me this year. SOOOO TIRED! Normally I greet the time change with arms wide open. No more getting home when its dark! But this week has been rough. #imoldashell All I can do is keep my routine, make sure my diet is in check and get enough sleep. This too shall pass right? Man, I hope so.

Speaking of diet, this week I wanna talk about fruit. All the fruit. Poor fruit. I feel bad for fruit.  People demonize it for its sugar and carbohydrates, but fruit is important for our diet. So, let’s put fruit in the spot light, shall we?

Who doesn’t love fruit! It’s delicious, refreshing, sweet, sometimes sour if that’s what you’re into. It adds flavor to your meals and your life! It just pops on the palette. But besides just the deliciousness that is fruit, there are several benefits for our bodies as well. For instance, several fruits have an abundance of potassium. Potassium can reduce the risk of heart disease and stroke. Stroke runs in my family so any preventative measures I can take, especially as easy as eating a piece of fruit during the day, Sign me up! Some good sources of potassium include the obvious fan favorite, bananas but also cantaloupe, kiwi and apricots as well as citrus fruits.

You may have also heard in passing that fruit is a good source of folic acid. Folic acid helps the body form red blood cells.  And for our moms to be out there, It is also touted for preventing tube birth defects and spina bifida. Fruit sources containing folic acid include peaches, citrus fruits, strawberries and raspberries.

Many fruits are also rich in fiber. Fiber is important in our diet to help regulate our bowels……yes, I went there. I’m sorry! You need a good poo at least once a day. Don’t act like you don’t. What does the Charmin commercial say? Enjoy the go? Isn’t that it. Fiber also helps lower cholesterol, regulate blood sugar and aid in weight loss. See…..abs ARE made in the kitchen. It’s true. Fruits that are high in fiber include raspberries, pears, apples (I eat an apple a day…go me keepin’ that doctor away what what!) strawberries and figs. Make sure to eat these with the skin to get the full fiber experience. LOL

Berries; blueberries, blackberries, raspberries etc. are full of antioxidants. Antioxidants give us more energy, build up our resistance to colds and flu, make our skin look younger and help alleviate allergies. I know with all of the pollen in the air lately it probably would hurt to grab an extra handful of blueberries during the day.

And yes, it’s true, fruit tends to be high in carbohydrates and sugar. But guess what, it’s natural sugar! Not that processed, bleached shit that is found in a package of Oreos. And carbohydrates, they’re kind of a big deal and they are good for you, especially your brain. Carbohydrates give you energy, help your body process protein and can aid in weight loss. Yup, they aid in long term weight loss. #knowledgebomb

So see, fruit is great! It provides our bodies with essential vitamins and minerals. Fruits gives us energy and flavor. Maybe try having some fruit in the morning instead of your coffee or tea. You may be surprised….who am I kidding…..fruit is great but give up coffee? No Way! Sorry 
not sorry.


Here is an awesome little chart I found on Pinterest if you want to find out more about your favorite fruits and their benefits.




If you go to my Pinterest board “smoothies” I have pinned a bunch of smoothie recipes, so you can enjoy your fruit on the go.

Alright kids….gotta run. Work is calling…UGH, I need a vacation. Just keep swimming. At least until I can bring my PTO out of the gutter.

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Jennifer Tries....Cycle Bar!

March 9, 2018



Hey there with your bad self! It’s Fri-Yay! Whoop Whoop! I am so ready for this weekend. I’m going to spend some quality fiasco time with my sister and niece. It’s been a hot minute since we’ve had a real fiasco day. What’s a fiasco day you ask?! I think I may have explained this before but there is always room for a recap. So, I am the youngest of three girls. The middle sister of the three and I….well…..we’re the fiascos. At least according to my mom, anything we do turns into a fiasco. Hence, fiasco sisters were born. And then there’s my niece, the future fiasco. Every so often we get together and go on an adventure. We have had some fun adventures, gotten lost, seen some interesting things, stolen a lemonade stand. You know, typical. Oh, if only I had started this blog a few years ago. Crazy times.
I’m hoping it stays pretty sunny and warm Saturday. The weather has been crazy lately. Just when I thought Spring was making its appearance it was 40 something Monday morning. Um…no. It was certainly weird since this past Sunday was so nice out. Cool enough not to sweat but you didn’t need a jacket. So nice. Speaking of this past Sunday, let me tell you about what I tried! So last week, I received an e-mail from Cycle Bar, a spin studio, offering me a free class for my birthday. Who knows how they got my e-mail. I have never been to their studio or their website but I was curious, so I hopped on the world wide web to check them out. Come to find out, everyone gets their first ride for free.
Oh wait, I guess I should explain what spin is in case you aren’t familiar. Basically, spin is riding a stationary bike in a group setting on steroids. Did that paint a picture in your mind? I think you get the gist. OK, back to my Cycle Bar experience. So, your first class is free. Great! I looked at the schedule online, which is very detailed by the way. You can see who your instructor will be and get their bio, they give a brief description of the type of class and music they will play. Very informative. We were doing family things on Saturday, so I thought Sunday morning was the best option.
I texted the hubs to see if he would want to join me. I totally thought he was going to say no. If you know my husband, he doesn’t share the same enthusiasm about exercising as I do. Once he’s in the workout, he kills the game, he can't be beat, but he’s not usually the one to seek it out.  To my surprise and joy he said yes! Sweet! We decided to go to the Sunday 9:30am class. We would get to sleep in a bit but still get a good workout in and have the remainder of the day.
Saturday evening a friend of ours came into town so Sunday morning we dragged him to class too. We’re great hosts. LOL. Cycle Bar is located on Dale Maybry just South of Kennedy boulevard. Not close to where we live but centrally located and easy to get to. When we arrived, we were greeted by the front desk staff. They were each welcoming and helpful. We each received a free water bottle. And it is a nice water bottle ok! Quality! We checked in on iPads and were given cycle shoes. Yes, cycle shoes. The last time I took a spin class I just wore my regular tennis shoes. This was hard core.

They directed us to the locker area. The studio where the bikes are located is a cell phone free zone. We had to leave all of our stuff in the lockers.  While we waited to enter the studio, we filled up our bottles from their filtered water they have on tap. I noticed they had body wipes you could help yourself to after class to freshen up after your ride.


Once the prior class let out we were able to enter the studio. I noticed the prior class looked like they all could use a body wipe or two. What were we getting ourselves into? The studio was dimly lit and each bike was labelled with the number you chose on line when you signed up. We were guided to our bikes and given the run down on how to adjust the bike and “click in” our shoes. Once you’re on this bike you are locked in. No losing your pedals here.
Each Bike was adorned with a sweat towel and a small weighted bar. Oh yes, there is more to this spin class than just spin. The class was almost full. I was in shock. Who wants to get up on a Sunday? OK…..me….but still. We all know by now that I’m a different animal.
When the class started all of a sudden it was Club CycleBar. The music was loud, the instructor had a headset and she was loud. It was very loud. Almost too loud at points, like I’m too old to listen to anything this loud and should have brought ear plugs…loud. There were times I couldn’t understand what she was saying so I just had to watch what to do next. The music was good though. I caught myself singing along from time to time. I just think they need a little better balance between the music and the headset volume…..or I just need to stop being old…I dunno.
During the class we were in control of how difficult it was to pedal. She would give us different ranges we should be in and we would adjust the resistance accordingly. We were down on our seat, up out of our seat, we did core work, we did sprints, we did a lot! Towards the end of the class we used the weighted bar to do some shoulder, arm and chest work…..all while still pedaling. Crazy! I felt like such a weiny in that moment because who knew a 4lb bar could cause such fatigue?! My poor shoulders.  Do I even lift bro?
We finished the workout with a cool down and then got off the bikes to stretch. We were drenched in sweat. Body wipe please! I have taken a few spin classes before, many moons ago, and I NEVER sweat like that. I felt so energized after that class. It was a great way to start a Sunday morning and a great change in my workout routine. And to top it all off you get an e-mail following the class with your stats. I came in 8th out of a bunch of people…..like maybe 20. I was impressed since it was my first class. Go me, it’s my birthday, not really but go anyway!

 I would definitely recommend giving Cycle Bar a try. If even to add some variety to your workout regimen it’s totally worth it. Luckily it’s not far from where I work so if I want to get a class in before or after work I have that option. Maybe I’ll see you there! If you're old like me, don't forget your ear plugs!
Don’t forget, if you wanna try it out your first ride is free! So go sign up online and go Rock Your Ride!

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